Most of us are running away from things that currently make our life unpalatable - a job we don't like, an unhappy relationship, a financial mess. But this looking back disables us from seeing the opportunity of the present and the prize of a blissfully successful and happy life in the nows yet to come. You've got to learn how to focus your subconscious mind on what is exciting - not on simply escaping from the 'not too bad' of normal life.